My mom use to say, "Come see me when my eyes are open, not when my eyes are closed". ~ Joann Drury 

Our family in Italy was in the flower business. I remember seeing all the beautiful arrangements for a funeral and thinking "Why can't you give these to us when we're breathing?" ~ Dina Nizza 

Doesn't matter if you bring flowers or not Respect the living and Honor the dead. ~ Connie Hauser

In death we hear the truth, it's the living that must endure the lies. ~ Brendan Kreiser 

Live a life being nice to people, in the end they will regret for not being good to you but you will be happy about yourself being good to everyone.