Forgiving means to let it go, accept that the past cannot be changed, stop trying to change it, stop wishing it were different, and move forward. Learn from the experience, but to hold onto it only hurts you. I’m not saying this is easy, it most certainly in many accounts is not. But stop holding onto and reliving the hurt. It happened. You can’t change it. Make life better for yourself. You also might want to accept that human beings are not infallible. They err in judgment and hurt people they love. Not intentionally, but it happens. Who else is important enough to us that they have the power to hurt us? Forgive your loved one for being flawed, and make a stronger tomorrow. ~ Gail Rosen
The soul always knows a way in which it needs to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind.
When one human being can continue to be nasty in any form and to anyone them and their actions become hard to forget, never let your worth be destroyed and we just have to be patient and wait for them to learn their lesson. ~ Jessica Huby
When that pain comes up just think if you didn’t go through that pain would you be where you are today. I have been through a lot of pain in my life and it keeps coming but through it all. It has taught me to not care what people think of me just to be myself. It has made me a better person you. The pain always come around once in awhile but I just stop and say thank you God for making me the person I am today despite that situation. ~ Wedge Nikki