Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. Be happy in your own world. Count on karma to deal with the rest.
If you can take control of your life, and learn how to be present, negotiate, and ask for what you need, you won’t have to forgive so much. We all have the right to just be happy. To weed out the people who really don’t care about us, or want to be age appropriate and see the good in us and what we are about. ~ Kimberly Grytness
Let go of those that are judgmental/negative, they certainly will drag you down.