Give but don’t allow yourself to be used. Love but don’t allow your heart to be abused. Trust but don’t be naive. Listen to others but don’t lose your own voice.
Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.
The people you cross oceans for are probably laughing at you behind your back. ~ Sikelela Ncube
I literally had to do this, spending a fortune on flights for years to a women who only gave me false lies. I respected she could not have any sexual contact until after marriage. I loved her so much. I believed her when she swore we would be together forever so i not only waited but paid to put her through 3 years of university. after she finished using me. she gave me 0 of what she had promised besides a broken heart cry emoticon it hurt more than words can describe. after her i could never love again and have serious trust issues.
Don’t let someone who don’t deserve you in the first place ruin the rest of your life. Go out and find someone who deserves your love. ~ Karen Anderson
I always hear God say treat others as you want them to treat you, but people are not always like that. There are takers and givers and some people take advantage of others, where there is a good heart being confused as a dumb person. There is a big difference and even if it is not noticed her it is noticed in God’s eyes. ~ Regina Rockwell